Marni Jameson: Making your home welcoming is all in the approach

A few weeks ago, I told you how my offer to host a patio party triggered a major backyard refresh. What I didn't tell you was that I didn't stop there. In that Pandora's-box way that happens when one home project detonates another, my backyard effort caused me to take a good look around the rest of the house. (I was sorry I did.)

I’d let a few maintenance jobs slide out front. The paint on the front door was blistering and peeling. The door handle, new six years ago, had measles. Cobwebs and insect debris clung in the corners. The once glossy black mailbox was mottled and faded. The black paint on the front gate had worn off from handling and looked like camouflage.

If I were a person passing by, I would say, "These people don't even try!"

As I assessed my home's facade, I had the same thought that crosses my mind when I look in the mirror and see another sprig of gray, or a new wrinkle: When did that happen!? Although you can't stop time, you can at least try to keep up. Maintaining a home is like painting the Golden Gate Bridge. The job never stops.

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Now that I was in spring cleanup mode, I capitalized on my momentum. I made a project checklist starting at the curb. Ugg, that mailbox. A while back my neighbor had texted me the name of her handyman who had recently repainted her mailbox "in case I was interested." (Hint. Hint.) I called him up. He could fix that and take care of the front gate, too. Check, Check.

Meanwhile, I had the house pressure washed, which feels like a juice cleanse, fluffed up the flower beds, and called my painter about the front door. He had painted the formerly wood-grain door deep orange (Sherwin-Williams Jalapeno) when we moved in six years ago. The east facing wood door takes the full Florida so looks five times its age. "It's time," he gently said. While he picked up a quart of exterior acrylic latex gloss, I got a new handle and lockset, which his guys replaced when they repainted.

Afterward, I took a step back to admire the sum of these small fixes. I heard the Happy Yellow House whisper, "Thank you."

"You’re welcome," I whispered back.

Even though I rail at you about cutting clutter, as if that were the most important factor in maintaining your home's appearance, even more important is how your home looks outside.

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Spring is a great time to spruce up the face your home shows the world. To take your home's entrance from "I don't care" to "please come in," run through this 10-point checklist:

Your front door is your home's focal point. Join me next week for expert tips on how to upgrade yours.

Marni Jameson is the author of six home and lifestyle books. You may reach her at www.marnijameson.com.